People always think that the babies know nothing about the world, so that they dont know what they are doing and their mistakes can be forgiven all the time. Actually, according to the new research, the babies have their own recognition, they make judgement by observing parents reaction.
人们总是认为,婴儿对世界一无所知,所以他们不知道自己在做什么,他们的错误是可以得到原谅的。事实上,根据一项新的研究,孩子有自己的意识,他们通过观察父母的反应来做判断。
For example, if the baby wants to buy the toy, he will point to the toy or just stand there. Most parents will realize the babys need and satisfy him. So the baby has learned that if they do the same thing, they can get what they want. The worse thing is that when the baby makes mistakes, the parents think it is natural for him and wont correct them. Then the baby will become naughty.
举个例子,如果孩子想买玩具,他就会指着玩具或者只是站在那里,大多数父母就会意识到孩子的需要,从而去满足他。因此,婴儿已经认识到如果他们做同样的事情就可以得到他们想要的东西。更糟的是,当孩子犯了错误时,父母认为这是理所当然的,所以不去纠正错误。然后孩子就会变得淘气。
My aunts baby is the example. My aunt tell me that she thinks the baby is too small and there is no need to take it serious. So she feels tired to look after the baby. But there is a mother who lives next to her. My aunt tells me that her neighbours baby behaves well, later I find that the mother always corrects her babys mistake.
我姑姑的孩子就一个例子。我的阿姨告诉我,她觉得孩子太小了,没有必要去认真计较。所以她觉得照看婴儿很累。但她家隔壁也有一位母亲。我姑姑告诉我,她邻居的孩子就表现得很好,后来我发现,那位母亲总是纠正孩子的错误。
The parents should realize the importance of babys recognition, so that they can better educate the baby.
父母应该意识到宝宝认知的重要性,这样他们就可以更好的教育孩子。
I saw an interesting scene from a TV show. A girl and a boy were forced to have the blind date, and they know nothing before they came to the dinner table. They felt embarrassed and after introducing each other, the girl began to speak English with the boy. The parents did not know what they were talking about, but they felt happy to see them communicating. Actually, the boy and the girl said they didnt want this date and decided to tell their parents the truth, and they felt relieved. Mastering another language provides people more ways to communicate. Sometimes we can use it in the fun way.
我在电视节目上看到有趣的一幕。一个女孩和一个男孩被迫相亲,在他们来到餐桌前根本毫不知情。他们觉得很尴尬,互相介绍后,女孩开始和男孩说英文。父母不知道他们在说什么,但是很开心他们在聊天。其实,他们两个是在说不期待这样的约会,决定把真相告诉父母,他们觉得松了一口气。掌握另一种语言给人们提供了更多的交流方式。有时候我们可以进行有趣的交流。
人们都说世界上没有打不败的对手,也没有十全十美的人,每个人,都有自己成功的时候,失败的时候,但是在关键时刻,在我们筋疲力尽时,只要不放弃拼搏,再坚持一下,也许不过几秒钟,胜利就会来到我们身边。
记得在2008年奥运会女子接力赛中,参赛队员是中国,韩国,日本,美国,澳大利亚,法国,各派了4名选手参加接力赛,但是接力赛,最主要的是队员的默契,团队的组织,坚持的毅力到了最后一轮,是1000米长跑,有许多选手都已经筋疲力尽了,放弃了,但是我们的中国选手没有放弃,因为他心里一直在想,我在这个时刻要是放弃了,我们所有的队员们多少年的努力,多少年的艰辛,都没有了。她在心里反复在给自己喊加油,加油,你一定会行的,你是最棒的,就是在这样的心里支柱中,坚持到了终点,最后取得了金牌。
比完赛后记者采访这名伟大的选手,问请问,你高兴吗?但是我们的中国选手已经筋疲力尽了,连说一句话的力气恐怕也也没有了,但是他却说了这么一句话,感动了记者,也浸湿了所有出国留学网中国人的眼眶在很多时候,我们已经筋疲力尽的时候,千万不要放弃拼搏,只要再坚持一下,也许不过几秒钟,胜利就会来到我的身边,与其说我们是在比气力,倒不如说我们是在比毅力,就看谁能比对方多坚持一会儿,如果在这个时刻在精神上压倒对方,就有胜出的可能,所以我不认为这次我很高兴,因为尽管我取得了冠军,这也只是一个名次,真正的喜悦,不是拿到了世界冠军,而是我选择了坚持,我才不会在最后的时刻的放弃而追悔莫及。
如果你比别人多坚持一会儿,哪怕是再多坚持1秒,也会让你尝到喜悦的滋味,至少在最后我们才不会后悔。
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